Colli K Christante
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Awakening & Rekindling LOVE
The Essential Ingredient in Healing Trauma
Through Systemic Trauma & Family Constellation we come to understand many families have an unspoken history, and safe within the silence lies the remains of traumas too great to be resolved in one generation.
These traumas, heartbreaks and difficult fates seek resolution in each subsequent generation in our life and in our children. The body's natural response to trauma in the past may have been life-saving then - but for us, it becomes life depleting.
When we transform this disturbance at its source we are liberated and available to discover our authentic response to life.
A Family Constellation is a process that allows you to discover the invisible underlying dynamics that you are involved in, often coming from the family of origin.
Bert Hellinger, the founder of this work (Family Constellations) observed that many of us unconsciously "take on" destructive familial patterns of anxiety, depression, anger, aloneness, addictions, and even mental and physical illnesses as a way of "belonging" in our families.
Family Constellations shows us where these entanglements are and often just the awareness is enough to softly shift the energy. This opens us up to the flow of love that was there all along and so that we can rekindle our desires, which means living happier, healthier fulfilled lives.
In short, constellations allow us to break destructive family patterns. They give us a deeper understanding as to why we feel the way we feel, do the things we do and do not do the things we want to achieve in our lives!
Sometimes, severe TRAUMA (unknown and known) inhibits our brain’s ability to cope well in life generally and all of these can be structural impediments to be able to pursue our desires ... callings.
I have many clients who come to me, feeling like they have been unable to reach and fulfill their potential, and are filled with longing for it.
We can all OWN our special genius and give it in service to others. Family Constellation is a great resource for healing just these kinds of interruptions and then we need to AWAKEN, REKINDLE our DESIRES in order to completely heal otherwise we are not dead but not alive.
Wanting to clear the path of what stands in the way of you living your life fulfillingly in all areas of your life?
Call me NOW ... 306-716-9218
I booked a Family Constellation Session with Colli Christante and really did not know what to expect. I've done many different conventional therapies before so I was a bit skeptical on the results. WOW!!! I had no idea how much would shift in me!!! Colli is so gifted! She's able to completely immerse herself in the family dynamic and intuitively knows what needs to be accomplished. Her care and support was felt throughout the session! There were things in me I had no idea were running the show and holding me back that I was able to see and let go of. Mind boggling!! It's completely changed the way I look at my family and myself. I felt an enormous weight lifted from me!! And have seen the shift in my world!! Thank you so much, Colli, for your wonderful and much-needed service! I feel everyone should have a Family Constellation Transformation! For themselves and for their relationship with their children, their partner, and the family as a whole. L.S ❤️❤️❤️
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Family Constellations work is a form of brief therapy with an orientation towards resolution. This work quickly and precisely reveals dynamics that bind a person to his or her relationship system in a dysfunctional way, and that constrain coping strategies and personal development, thereby preventing the person from structuring his or her life in a positive way.
The methods of constellation work incorporate techniques, procedures and experiences from other psychotherapeutic approaches including hypnotherapy, behaviour therapy, gestalt therapy and systemic therapy.
Individual sessions only the client and the therapist are present.
Constellations in this setting can be just as effective as a constellation in a group.
A constellation can be visualized in our imagination and all the movements and rituals can be completed in the mind’s eye.
Alternatively, using figures, dolls, or blocks to represent the family members allows the client and the therapist to look at the constellation together from the outside. Constellations using markers consisting of felt pieces or sheets of paper are also effective. The client or therapist can stand in the various marked positions, thereby gaining additional information about the dynamics in the family system through bodily sensations and any changes following interventions.
All of these methods can provide experiences of high intensity and awareness and serve well to test out hypotheses, develop resolutions, and create effective images of resolution.
In online sessions, the work can be done in an individual setting, which means only the client and the therapist are present or in small groups.
The advantage of this method is that the client and the therapist can have a session remotely while being in different countries, cities, or even in different points of the same city.
The work can be done by visualizations, in the mind’s eye or using a virtual field where we can set the constellation using virtual figures as representatives or abstract object provided by the same application. For this the therapist sends a link to the client to access the virtual field where the session will take place.
The link can only be accessed by the client and the therapist and remains confidential. No written data will be stored unless the client asks for it. The client also has the opportunity to receive the final snapshot of the session to be able to come back to the image of resolution whenever it feels necessary.
Using Phone, Coaching Platform as our tool to connect – we can create a ‘virtual clinic’ with our online connection allowing us to experience a session just as we would in my office. Our time together is a dedicated 90 minute session that offers deep transformation in your life.
Every person is unique – just like the challenges we face in life. Let’s schedule a brief conversation so that I can any answer questions you may have.
"Yes yes yes! So happy for you, you are the most amazing person for
this work! Love you" Rodika Tchi
I had a session with Colli a few days ago and feel very grateful for all the transformation that is happening now... Colli's wisdom, presence and caring insights are incredibly valuable and helpful.
Experiencing the session on her online platform was very interesting... You get to actually see how your Soul is guiding it all... skillfully rearranging.. taking a pause where needed.. repositioning all players in your life so they can fall in harmony with the energy of love, acceptance, with a more natural and caring way of being.
Colli's guidance is nurturing and exact, and her wisdom shines in a very comforting and bright way. I have known Colli for years and always appreciated her deep spiritual quest into Life's mysteries.
It was an honor, and a joy and a very healing process to go through this session. I highly recommend Colli's work, no matter where you are in the world. It will bring tremendous insights, and may even start releasing loads of heavy generational pain and suffering. Rodika Tchi
"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate”
~ Carl Jung
“The greatest tragedy of the family is the unlived lives of the parents.”
― C.G. Jung
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Some children have difficulties in dealing with school stress, such as homework, test anxiety, bullying, or peer pressure. They also may need to discuss their feelings about family issues, particularly if there is a major transition, such as a divorce, a move, or serious illness within the family. Through play, different exercises and Family Constellations for children, in a brief period of time, we help them to build resources, to find tranquillity and relief in the difficult areas of their lives.
Family Constellations is a HEALING approach where rather than looking at your child's issues as a personal flaw, this work is about widening perspective.
How are the system's your child belongs to such as family, family history, school, ... how do these systems create or set up your child for the challenges they are experiencing?
And what is so amazing about this work is how often you and your child get to the realization that if your child put anyone else in their shoes they too would feel the same way as your child is feeling right NOW!!!
And so ... once your child gets to that point ... NOW it becomes where can my child stand that allows my child to no longer be the carrier of anxiety.
Where my child stand where he/she is gaining RESOURCES from where my child comes from instead of being the ones that carry the burden.
Remember:
"It Did Not Start With You BUT It Can End With YOU and YOUR CHILD"
Family Constellations can help children and adolescents to develop problem-solving skills while teaching children the value of seeking help. They can benefit from Family Constellations as it helps them and their families to cope with stress and a variety of emotional and behavioral issues.
Family Constellations for Children
I look at the issues that may be affecting their school performance and relationships with peers or teachers. Those issues can be connected to the relationships and communication within the family.
Should My Child do a Family Constellation?
Family Constellations can be of great help when it is not clear what causes a child to suddenly become withdrawn, worried, stressed, sulky, or tearful. It is also helpful if you sense your child might have an emotional or behavioral problem or needs help coping with a difficult life event.
Significant life events — such as the death of a family member, friend, or pet; divorce or a move; abuse; trauma; a parent leaving on military deployment; or a major illness in the family — can cause stress that might lead to behavioural problems, mood, sleep, appetite, and academic or social alterations.
Signs that a child may benefit from a Family Constellation include:
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Learning or attention problems (such as ADHD)
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Behavioural problems (such as excessive anger, acting out, bedwetting or eating disorders)
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Eating disorders- Bulimia and Anorexia
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Significant drops in grades, particularly if your child normally maintains high grades
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Episodes of sadness, tearfulness, or depression
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Social withdrawal or isolation
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Being the victim of bullying or bullying other children
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Decreased interest in previously enjoyed activities
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Developmental delay in speech, language, or toilet training
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Overly aggressive behaviour (such as biting, kicking, or hitting)
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Insomnia or increased sleepiness
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Excessive school absenteeism or tardiness
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Mood swings (e.g., happy one minute, upset the next)
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Development of or an increase in physical complaints (such as headache, stomach-ache, or not feeling well – despite a normal physical exam by your doctor)
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Management of a serious, acute, or chronic illness
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Signs of alcohol, drug, or other substance use
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Prescription drug abuse
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Problems in transitions (following separation, divorce, or relocation)
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Bereavement issues
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Custody evaluations
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Anger issues
Family Constellations for Children can be done in person at Queen's House Retreat and Renewal Centre in Saskatoon by phone or online.
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YONI CONSTELLATIONS
Yoni Constellation sessions are for women who want to be in contact with their sacred female being, their holy place, their Yoni. The term Yoni includes all the female sexual organs: the vulva, the vagina, the uterus and the ovaries.
In a Systemic Constellation the Yoni gets a voice: she can speak about her condition, provide messages, express feelings and emotions. In many cases, this sacred place is negatively affected, tensed up, frozen and numbed by an individual or transgenerational trauma. The Yoni is insulted, tensed, hurt, and restrained in its unfolding and its central importance by any experience of sexual abuse, puritanic education and atmosphere at home or in society, religious denial, lack of respect or defamation. A relaxed and fully sensitive Yoni provides women with self-esteem, beauty and courage, with inspiration and creativity, with wonderful orgasms and oceanic delight.
A Systemic Constellation session gives the extraordinary chance to listen to the Yoni in order to gain essential information about a woman’s deepest female nature. Healed sexuality, deep understanding of yourself, general wellbeing and fulfillment are the best preconditions for a woman to find and create a satisfying relationship with a loving partner, characterized by equality, mutual respect, erotic appeal, peaceful friendship, sensitivity and mindfulness, and as well as to be successful in her job and career.
Colli ... Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this amazing session.
The work you do is absolutely amazing. Through the session, I saw things that I didn’t even know existed and were still blocking me from creating the life that I kept visualizing in my mind but could never bring it out into physical reality. And I never knew why. Now I do. The way that you do the session is simply powerful and gets to the core of the issue.
Our souls are a gift from the creator and our bodies are our temple where Soul lives. Soul is here to learn lessons until we reach Nirvana. We are also here to have the best in health, love, financial abundance and spiritually.
God/Universe gave you a very special gift. You are a blessing. Once again, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
May the blessings be. Love always Gayle