21-10-2024
To Every Daughter Who Walks the Path Without Her Mother
No matter your age, losing a mother leaves a deep imprint on your life. Sometimes we lose our mothers through their own traumas and they are not present with or for us.
I understand this deeply, as I lost my mom twice- -first at birth, when I was given to be raised by my dad’s sister because my mother was unwell, and again at 14 when she passed away after I had returned to live with her at age 6. For so long, I carried the belief that I was unwanted. This belief colored so many parts of my life—my relationships, my sense of self-worth, and my view of the world.
But I came to realize that this wasn’t the truth. The feeling of not being wanted was rooted in deep systemic trauma that I wasn’t even aware of. It wasn’t until I discovered systemic trauma, family constellations, and the impact of self-sabotage that my life began to change. I got to the truth of those hidden patterns and uncovered the real story behind my feelings of unworthiness.
Now, I do this work with other women—helping them turn their lives around just as I did. If you feel like you’ve been stuck in the same patterns, I want you to know that healing is possible. Don’t let the difficult times make you forget how amazing you are. Whether you lost your mother early in life or later on, the absence may have left a void, but it also reveals the strength you carry within. Never stop being true to yourself, and protect your beautiful heart as you continue to grow, heal, and thrive.
Your sacrifices, your struggles—they will not be in vain. You can break free from the beliefs that hold you back like the one I HELD in my subconscious for too many years, and together, we can uncover the truth that sets you free.
Here for you. Always and in all ways.
Believe Breathe Transform.
Collitalks.
Love and soul hugs
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